最好的　其實就在身邊，何須尋尋覓覓．．．？

上文說到女人偉大．男士若否決，請看below: 

 

懷孕之苦，生育之痛，均不用男方承受（當然過中喜悅男士亦無法體會）．男人唯一貢獻的就是精子．是的，這麼微小的傢伙赦免了男士諸多苦刑．如此不平等對待，難道就是上主懲罰夏娃引誘亞當偷吃禁果之過？！

 

男士在外衝鋒陷陣之際，可會記得是女性把他（們）帶來世上；職務上歧視女性之時，可又記起沒有女人那有他？欺壓"恩人"，是否該下地獄？！

 

男女平等．．．太陽西面升起的事實！

 

某日與同事談到去留問題，她淡然道："嫁雞隨雞．．．嘛”．

 

都說女人偉大，由生孩子，到追隨幸福而作出的捨棄，皆超越男人（男士們請捫心自問，利益跟前女伴大都被棄）．誠然，那有"娶妻隨妻"呢？

 

結婚，生子，之後生活都為另外一半，另一個人奮鬥．有人與你分享生活點滴，同樣你亦要分享他的一切，喜憂inclusive. Whole package, 不容有失．此刻，本人還沒有如斯力量去承擔另外一個個體之一切．應該話，能夠給予我去承擔這份"重任"之力量的人還沒出現（這樣說對我公平點）．．．

 

幸福是一種心境．悠然，自然得！

 

 

 

測驗考試，為１００分奮鬥；拿到１００分，又要為 "keep"住，不斷奮鬥，繼續奮鬥，再次奮鬥，加倍奮鬥．．．

 

想拿１００分，就要付出１２０分努力，甚至更多，更多，更多！

 

英國大文豪 Oscar Wilde 說過："人生最後悔的不是過錯，而是沒有錯過．”

 

想年輕嗎？重覆年輕時所 "犯”的錯吧！年少時，明知是錯的都會去做，心想 "再有重生”機會．做了，就不後悔；那一刻，想做，而沒有去 "做”那一步，日子過後，頭一直昏倒那時為何沒有ｘｘｘ，不去ｘｘｘ．．．　如此包袱，餘生背負，延至下一代，何堪！

 

與其追悔，倒不如 "不悔”？！

 

 

從來都怕 "出風頭”，怕人家說 "巴閉”．始終 "人怕出名，豬怕肥”．

 

後來發覺，每一個也有他的長／短處，有人愛說閒話，造謠，打擊人．然後我學會了 "靜”："成功要靜，敗了要靜”．

 

對自己有自信，努力裝備自己，心念堅定，我不怕別人閒言閒語．

 

浪漫是一種感覺．不一定弄到滿室玫瑰花瓣，點上蠟燭才算浪漫．簡單而言：不須形體塑造．

 

巴黎浪漫．走在街上，吸入的空氣也浪漫．有人話巴黎髒，一點不浪漫．我就話，浪漫是種感覺，不須言語．

 

說實些，內心要記念一個人，或者是被掛念著，這個地方才會美！

 

琛秋的巴黎一定倍加浪漫．

 

做人, 要有量度; 做女人, 則不能有量度.

 

量什麼度, 對男友前女友? 對丈夫二奶? 對自己媳婦? 真弄不清請丈夫前情人出席婚禮的女人; 表面大方, 實際愚昧 (閣下展現清高時人家早已有備而戰).

 

"請客易, 送客難" 無謂拿自己幸福作賭注?! 

 

以前成日會背脊癢, 媽咪就買了個"不求人"回家. 覺得此屬偉大發明!

 

如今也會背脊癢, 不過就唔係"不求人"咁簡單: 因為是天氣乾燥, 又或者是皮膚乾燥所致. 是要塗lotion的.

 

問題是: 大部分背部屬"inaccessible" areas, 即"非自己雙手可觸及"部位.

 

結果, 我的背脊看上去花斑斑的! 都是多年來累積弄來的... 好可憐!

 

所以我說, 女人要找個partner, 不是怕crawling into an empty bed at night, 而是晚上有人替她"塗塗背"!

 

戀愛本來就是難的: 難寫, 難解, 難明 ---- 看看當中辭彙 : 繾綣 , 纏綿 , 痴纏; 糾纏, 交織; 傾慕, 愛戀...

 

筆畫多, 複雜 (比 Biochem 102 還要難!). 全都帶著黏附一起, "痴埋一舊" 的含意; 平常人也覺難以解讀的, 其實就是情.

 

寫情難, 會情更難...!

愛, 其實是做出來的.

 

覺得他不是不好, 只是終身幸福嘛... 又未夠班! 在這 "進退兩難" 之局面, "做"了再說吧...!

 

結果: 難捨難離. 一旦讓男人通進妳心, 後果自負!

 

 

 

本年火年, 本人屬"金", 火生金, 所以金人本年都會"懶洋洋"(即唔洗點做~). 但也因而易長肉... 糟 -- 易胖噢!

 

二月起, 我都閒著似的. 整理一下家居, 尋回以為失去的記憶 ; 當年"豪氣"的買下"正版". 所以現在可以懷緬Twins金曲.

 

"拍住上", "戀愛大過天", "多謝失戀" 均是好歌(起碼比"YOu are my Best Friend" 好得多~). 有些東西, 是永恆的!!

 

 

另外, 迷上煮飯. 現在"豆豉蒜泥蒸排骨"已弄至出神入化. 下個target --- "紅酒牛柳"!

Food, water, air, light.... all contaminted. Viruses got mutated. I wonder what can be left pure in this world... It is even hard to find pure love now...

 

There was no physical interaction involved, which, perhaps, keeping the relationship intact. No materials, no ecstasy; only spiritual admiration.

 

It's a sunday, relaxing and tranquil. I turned on my PC and watched "Roman Holiday". To many people, this is the classic film of Audrey Hepburn. Frankly, I haven't seen a movie of her, a whole movie I mean. This is, literally,  my first time.

 

A not-uncommon story: royal princess sneaking away, staying in a stranger man's place, running around the city Rome, having a hair-cut, eating gelatto off the streets... They were never meant to last, but their memories were. Surprisingly, this movie didn't seem "old" to me, instead the flow of it is fluid and watcher-friendly. Even 50+ years from its release date, it's fresh and intriguing. Perhaps that's the power of Audrey Hepburn, whom you can never find an actress like/as her in this modern day!

 

In a quiet sunday afternoon, do enjoy "Roman Holiday", and the beauty of Rome!

I thought I was out of my mind; but yes, the X Files is on TV again...!

 

All my friends know I am a HUGE fan of this show. Back in the late 90s, I've already watched every single espisode of it. Enchanted by the handsome agents (Mulder in particular, of course), and the overall power of Science, I made the decision of studying Science (it was pretty cool to be a scientist, I suppose)!

 

Now, 10 years later, the show is on once again, starting from Season 1, and Monday through Thursday. What's more do you ask for...?!