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最好的　其實就在身邊，何須尋尋覓覓．．．？

A week of unpaid off: what to do? Do something which I haven't had the time to do when work. For instance, work-out (I've missed many sessions!), banking, updating my wardrobe (can't blame me, the weather drops!), meeting friends (we'd do lunch/dinner), and my family too.

 

It always strikes me how fortunate for women to be employed: unwanted phone calls: "sorry, am in a meeting right now."; uninteresting dates: "sorry my schedule is a bit tight this week...". As much as I wanted to be in love, I prefer to have a job, a career in which I can be neck to neck with the male genders.

 

It's always the sense of being in power and authority over the other parties that drives me forward. Onward and upward.

 

I love my job. I love my job!

 

 

上文說到女人偉大．男士若否決，請看below: 

 

懷孕之苦，生育之痛，均不用男方承受（當然過中喜悅男士亦無法體會）．男人唯一貢獻的就是精子．是的，這麼微小的傢伙赦免了男士諸多苦刑．如此不平等對待，難道就是上主懲罰夏娃引誘亞當偷吃禁果之過？！

 

男士在外衝鋒陷陣之際，可會記得是女性把他（們）帶來世上；職務上歧視女性之時，可又記起沒有女人那有他？欺壓"恩人"，是否該下地獄？！

 

男女平等．．．太陽西面升起的事實！

 

某日與同事談到去留問題，她淡然道："嫁雞隨雞．．．嘛”．

 

都說女人偉大，由生孩子，到追隨幸福而作出的捨棄，皆超越男人（男士們請捫心自問，利益跟前女伴大都被棄）．誠然，那有"娶妻隨妻"呢？

 

結婚，生子，之後生活都為另外一半，另一個人奮鬥．有人與你分享生活點滴，同樣你亦要分享他的一切，喜憂inclusive. Whole package, 不容有失．此刻，本人還沒有如斯力量去承擔另外一個個體之一切．應該話，能夠給予我去承擔這份"重任"之力量的人還沒出現（這樣說對我公平點）．．．

 

幸福是一種心境．悠然，自然得！

 

 

 

測驗考試，為１００分奮鬥；拿到１００分，又要為 "keep"住，不斷奮鬥，繼續奮鬥，再次奮鬥，加倍奮鬥．．．

 

想拿１００分，就要付出１２０分努力，甚至更多，更多，更多！

 

”唉，是時候面對現實喇...！" 回航程坐我鄰座的女生道．

 

相信不少歐遊的人都會有此同感．港澳地區是搵錢地，談不上大文化背景，理想遠景．令人茫然慨嘆．

 

重遊花都，體會稍別：看到髒亂一面．美麗的仍然美麗，可惜污穢扣分！

 

走進意大利，感覺一震！四周建築物不只美麗，簡直是鬼斧神工！一座一座，實實在在，不被外來侵擾．而且意大利氣候怡人，食物多元化（pizza, gelato, pasta...!!), 不會餓死！

 

比對之下，巴黎是西餅，美輪美奐cream花邊，吃不飽；意大利是咖哩角，雞批，層次多，感覺強烈！Or: 前者是Chanel：黑白灰；後者是Cavalli, 大花花裙，色彩斑斕．

 

多一份了解，小一份期望．人生就是要多看一點！  

 

 

People say, "If you haven't visited Louvre and Musee d'Orsay in Paris, you gonna have to go back!"

 

True! Last visit, I couldn't manage the latter, blame the bad weather and my out-of-mind. Such a regret lingered until this very day, which dragged me spending my whole salary into re-visiting.

 

Be it a completion of unfulfilled wish, this time I'm gonna turn things around!

 

人生充滿驚喜: 突然間, 不幹了! 下一秒鐘, 就話飛巴黎. 連本人亦無法解釋.

 

"如果你唔走, xx 一定是你的!" 升職，加薪我當然想；可回心再想：這是我要的嗎？這是我這些年來一直努力的原因嗎？

 

Fame and Fortune, 每個人都想．若要背棄理想才能得到這兩個 "F"，抱歉，我做不到！為生活，我已放棄不少次追求理想的機會．來到這一次，我退不了步！

 

能夠得到上司對自己能力的認同，我已很欣慰，對得起家人，朋友；我知道我倘若留下，拚了命的博，一定勝任．不過：沒有理想的人生便不是人生．我選擇 "活”！

 

此刻，我感到我的人生即將步入另一新階段！ 

 

People talk. I know; particulary when you have achieved something which others cannot. This I cannot control.

 

However much patience allowed, I couldn't help but wonder: have they, or would they, ever considered the effort and time I have put into the project, while they were doing nothing at all?

 

God gives us a mouth to praise the Lord; not the devil. 

 

 

英國大文豪 Oscar Wilde 說過："人生最後悔的不是過錯，而是沒有錯過．”

 

想年輕嗎？重覆年輕時所 "犯”的錯吧！年少時，明知是錯的都會去做，心想 "再有重生”機會．做了，就不後悔；那一刻，想做，而沒有去 "做”那一步，日子過後，頭一直昏倒那時為何沒有ｘｘｘ，不去ｘｘｘ．．．　如此包袱，餘生背負，延至下一代，何堪！

 

與其追悔，倒不如 "不悔”？！